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Birthday Club 2018

The rules of birthday club are simple. You sign up, you get assigned a random partner; on their birthday you send them a present, and on your birthday they send you a present. I started this gift exchange last year, and it seems to have worked well, for the most part, so I’m hoping to get lots of people involved again!

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So if you’d like to join in, please fill in this form, and I’ll pair you up with another person. You will then buy a small selection of gifts for that person (based on some information they give you about themselves), and post them off, ready to open on their birthday. A reasonable amount to spend is £10-12, before postage.

Sign-ups will close on 10th December, meaning that anyone paired with an early January birthday should have plenty of time to buy and post a gift. I will endeavour to send a reminder to everyone a couple of weeks before the birthday of your partner, though I am pretty rubbish at things like this, so I make no promises!

Birthday Club

Having done a couple of Secret Santas this year, I came up with the idea that it might be nice to do a similar sort of thing for birthdays. I know people’s birthdays are a little more spread throughout the year, but I think it could still work!

birthday-club

I think the easiest way to make this work is to ask people to sign up, and to partner them with another person. You buy a small selection of gifts for that person (based on some information they give you about themselves), and post them off, ready to open on their birthday. I would say that a reasonable amount to spend is £10-£12, before postage.

So, if you would like to join in, please email me with the following information:

  • Full name and address
  • Birthday (including year if you are happy to disclose your age!)
  • Likes and dislikes (including allergies)
  • If you’re willing to post outside of the UK (we may not have any international participants, but it’s open to anyone who wants to join in!)

I will then pair people up and let you know who you are buying for! I’m going to put a closing date on this of 30th December, in the hope that nobody who signs up has a birthday in the first couple of days of January. If you do, but you’d still like to play, you may have to accept a slightly belated present!

I will also endeavour to send a little reminder a couple of weeks before the birthday of the person you are buying for, just in case anyone is as disorganised as I usually am!

Body UNashamed

Last week, Penny, one of my lovely blogger friends over at Lillies and Love, put the call out on Instagram and Twitter for bloggers to get in contact. She wanted to hear from people who were fed up with body shaming. “I have had just about as much as I can take of body shaming,” she said. Haven’t we all? We’ve all seen it on Facebook, Twitter, in magazines and newspapers and on the television. She’s too fat. She’s too thin. She has terrible hair. He has a beer belly. His hair is receding. She doesn’t have the figure for that top.

I know I’ve done it. I know I’ve looked at people on the street and judged them without a second’s thought. I’ve tried really, really hard to curb my judgemental streak, and now I try to judge people on the things they do and say, and not on the way that they look. The biggest victim in terms of my judgement though, is me. I look in the mirror several times a day, and I’ve recently got into the habit of saying to myself, “Look at the state of you.” How awful is that? I know that it’s pretty self-destructive, but it had genuinely become a habit; to catch sight of my reflection and mutter those words to myself. I decided that it has to stop, and I was busy drafting a blog post in my head the other day about a self-love project. About taking the time to appreciate me, and all the things that go into making me the unique woman that I am. That’s when Penny’s email fortuitously popped into my inbox. #bodyUNashamed is about celebrating those things, in ourselves and other people, that make us unique. So what if you don’t have a washboard stomach? Or that your nose is slightly bent, or your legs aren’t as long as you wish they were. We all need to get out of the habit of comparing ourselves to the people around us, and there’s nobody that needs to make a bigger change than me.

So this is the first step on the #bodyUNashamed road. To be frank, I am not unashamed of my body. I wish I could be, but I’m not. I’m hoping that Penny’s project will have a positive impact on the way I see myself, and the way I treat my body. I need to lose weight. Not because Heat magazine tells me to, or because I want to look like Cheryl Cole. But because I want to be healthier, and feel a lot happier about myself. It might seem counter-intuitive to talk about changing myself in the same breath as talking about being unashamed. But I think, for me, the two go hand in hand.

Penny has paired everyone up with another blogger, and asked us to take a look at their blog, and highlight three great things about them. I got paired with Hayley from Sparkles and Stretchmarks. Hers is not a blog I have ever read before, but when Penny sent me her name, I settled down and had a good old read! Hayley is mum to a gorgeous little boy called Tyne, a blond-haired, blue-eyed little one with a twinkle in his eye! Her blog and Instagram feed are full of photos, so it didn’t take me long to start making a list of great things about Hayley, based entirely on photos and blog posts.

– Hayley has pink hair. OK, so it’s just the ends that are dip dyed, but she still has pink hair! I want pink hair, but with my dark brown/red mop, I’m not sure it would really work! I love that Hayley just thought “You know what, I want pink tips,” and so she went out, bought a box of pink dye, and did it. No muss, no fuss, and now she has super cool hair.

– When I clicked on Hayley’s blog, one of the first posts that came up was one featuring a YouTube video she had made with her other half, Jon. I had a watch, and found myself laughing out loud. The two of them are so funny together! It made me realise that Hayley is as bubbly as she looks from her photos. You can see her personality shining through in the outfit photos she shares of herself. If I walked past Hayley on the street, I think I’d know that she’s fun. She has a naturally smiley, happy face, and I think that’s a lovely way to look.

– I read a post of Hayley’s from a couple of months ago where she wrote about her body issues. She has some health issues that has led to some weight gain, and this has left her feeling really unhappy about the way she looks. I know a few words from a stranger on the internet won’t magic all of those feelings away, but I just want to say that I think Hayley looks amazing. I have had a good look through her outfit posts, and she always looks great. Her outfits are often super comfortable, because she has a little one to run around after, but she always looks good! I’m totally coveting this ensemble – zebra print trousers? Yes please!

Penny’s a canny girl, because writing this about Hayley has made me realise that I have similar feelings to Hayley about myself, and I find it hard to find the positives in the way I look. But if I can go to Hayley’s blog and, after a couple of hours, find a whole load of things about this girl, who I don’t know, that I think are great, then I should be able to stand in front of the mirror and do the same for me. I know me a lot better than I know Hayley, after all!

The next thing I am supposed to do is share three things about my appearance that I like. I’ve tried to do similar things before on the blog, and you may remember that I shared a photo of myself where I pointed out my flaws, and the positives. There were more flaws than positives, but I’ll try to think of three!

– I go on about it, but I do really like the colour of my eyes. They might not be as different as I like to think they are, but someone once complimented me on them, and since then, I’ve always thought they are quite an interesting colour.

– Most of the time I hate my hair, but every now and again I can appreciate that while it might be thick to the point of bushy, when I actually take the time to do something with it, it can look nice. Thick hair can be a pain, but so many people comment on it and say that they would rather have thick hair than thin hair, that I’ve started to realise that it’s probably not all bad.

– When the sun comes out, I don’t tan. If I don’t wear Factor 50, I burn, and then I go back to milky white. I always say that I got the ginger gene that is so prevalent in my family, without actually getting the ginger hair. But I do get freckles in the summer, and I love my freckles. I get freckly arms, and a freckly face, and I think it makes me look so much healthier.

I think the #bodyUNashamed journey is a long one, but it’s well worth the time.

Essex Bloggers Lunch

On Saturday I met up with a group of lovely bloggers who all hail from Essex. We had our first meet at the start of the year in Chelmsford, and this time we met for lunch at Mare E Monti in Wickford.

There were only seven of us there in total, a few familiar faces from the first meet were sadly missing, but there were some new faces too, which was lovely! It’s so nice to spend time with other bloggers; we didn’t run out of things to talk about at all, and as someone said, bloggers don’t judge you for updating Twitter or Instagram during the meal!

~ Photo courtesy of Ria from Urban Butterfly ~

We chatted about all sorts; lots of blogging business, of course, but lots of other stuff too. The conversation didn’t dry up at all, and that’s genuinely my favourite way to spend an afternoon; chatting about something and nothing!

The food was lovely too, I had garlic bread and lasagne, and it cost £5.95 for the two courses. I abstained from dessert, and then had to watch jealously as the rest of the girls tucked into some yummy looking creations! Mare E Monti is a lovely family run Italian on Wickford high street; I’d definitely recommend it for anyone who lives locally as the food is great and the prices are very reasonable!

The same thing happened this time as last time; we were all too busy chatting to really think about taking many photos, but Bex from Mimi on the Rocks is a photographer, so we’re hopefully going to get together soon as have her snap some pictures!

Please do check out the girls’ blogs, they are all fabulous. Essex girls do it better, dontcha know?

Carousel Diary
LilliesandLove
Squibb Vicious
Mimi on the Rocks
Urban Butterfly
(And Bonnie is on Twitter, her blog is coming soon!)

If you are a blogger based in Essex, please join us on Twitter – @essexbloggers. We’re a very friendly bunch!

Waterstones Blogger Murder Mystery

In celebration of the Agatha Christie Festival this week, Waterstones is holding the first ever Blogger Murder Mystery event.

Waterstones needs your help, dear reader. There’s been a crime most horrid committed against fellow blogger Matthew Pike at http://www.bucketsandspadesblog.com/. We need your help to find the culprit and be in with a chance of receiving a £100 reward of Waterstones vouchers. Detective Michael Scott is on the case, so be sure to follow him on twitter @DCIMikeScott where he will be revealing clues throughout the week until Friday 20th September. You can question any of the bloggers using their twitter handle and the hashtag #BloggerMystery to find holes in their alibis.

The List of Suspects

Naomi @Bewitchery_  http://bewitcheryblog.co.uk/
Jane @ITYDarling  http://isthatyoudarling.wordpress.com/
Lucinda @ljbarton   http://www.bakesbooksandmyboys.com/
Katrina @carouseldiary  http://carouseldiary.com/
Sophie @sophiepatricia6  http://ileftmyheartinmiami.blogspot.co.uk/
Kel @kellovesclothes  http://www.kelloves.com/
Eleanor @ebsnare  http://threewordoutfit.com/

From DCI Michael Scott

“Waterstones invited six prestigious fashion and beauty bloggers – Elly, Kel, Sophie, Naomi, Katrina Louise and Mat – to its very first Fabulous Fashionista of the Year Award, held amid a lavish cupcake dinner at Cryptic Hall. However, events have taken a dark turn and Mat, the winner of the award, has been found dead in the bathroom. Foul play is most certainly suspected.

Details of the night are still sketchy, but we know all six fashionistas were known to each other at the time of the killing and enjoyed a friendly rivalry in the world of fashion blogging. Also in Cryptic Hall at the time were Jane, the owner of the manor, and a chef, Lucinda, who was hired to put on a delicious spread of cupcakes for the guests.

According to my interviews, the guests arrived at Cryptic Hall at around 6pm or just before. They sat down to enjoy Lucinda’s cupcakes and discuss their blogging with one another. There was a short break for coffee at around 6.40pm, during which time many of the guests seem to have left the table for various reasons. At 6.55 or thereabouts, we received a phone call from the suspect who found the body, claiming there had been a murder at Cryptic Hall.

Unfortunately, many of the suspects seem unwilling to cooperate, for reasons that are still being established. If you think you can tease more information out of them, ask them about their activities on that night via Twitter – and when you think you ascertained the culprit, the motive and the method, please relay your suspicions to me, DCI Michael Scott. Together, we can get to the root of this tale of intrigue, jealousy, high fashion and sweet, sweet cupcakes.”

My story

I was thrilled that Cryptic Hall was chosen as the venue for the Fabulous Fashionista of the Year Award, I love to keep up with all the latest fashions, and having these wonderful trendsetters in my home was very exciting! I didn’t know, of course, that this scandalous murder would occur. I do hope it won’t mean that my home and I are mentioned in the newspapers…

I have to confess to having taken a short nap, due to a headache that came on during the course of the evening. Maybe this shows me up as a terrible hostess, but I want to be completely honest. The first I knew about any murder was when one of the bloggers woke me. I can’t say for sure who did commit this dreadful crime, but I have to say that while I assumed that the world of fashion blogging was a friendly one, I have had my illusions shattered. There were some very nasty looks flying around the dining room this evening!

Once you think you know who the culprit is send a tweet to the detective giving the name of the killer, the motive and the method by Friday 20th September at Midnight. The winner will be selected on Monday 23rd September.

Good luck, sleuths.

Note: this competition is only open to UK residents

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