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What to do in 2016

Well this post has gone up a little later than planned! Obviously a post like this should probably go up a bit closer to the start of the year, but I’m nothing if not slightly behind the curve.

What to do in2016

For the past few years. I haven’t made New Year’s Resolutions as such. I’ve gone with the idea of cultural challenges; days out, reading books, and seeing films. Now a couple of those days out have migrated over to my vastly superior birthday list (34 Before 34 this year), and I’m left wondering what to with my New Year list.

I still want to set myself a goal for books and films, but in all honesty, the days out never work out. I see live music every year anyway, but the comedy gig, stately home and theme park have never been ticked off in all the time I’ve been doing this. So they are gone, and it’s time to have a rethink.

Beyond the books and films goals, I’m just going to have a couple of more vague goals – things that can’t be ticked off a list, but if I can get to the end of the year, and think “Yeah, I’ve definitely done more of that” then I’ll be happy.

Read 75 books
Having failed so spectacularly with this number in 2015, I deliberated over reducing it (or losing it completely) in 2016. But I’m just going to stick with it, and try harder this year.

Watch 150 new-to-me films
It seems a shame to say goodbye to the ‘52 Films in 52 Weeks’ challenge, because it just fits nicely. But with a Cineworld card, and a subscription to Netflix and Amazon Video, 52 is a stupidly small number. So I’m going big, and hoping to best 2015’s total by 10.

Watch 52 films at the cinema
Within that 150, I want at least 52 of the to be at the cinema. Obviously this works out as one a week, which is totally doable, and the exact number I saw in 2015.

Do more for others
I hate how much I moan about the little things, without taking time out to realise that I’m spectacularly lucky. So I’m going to spend some time this year doing good deeds.

Write more
I’m going to fill 2016 with words. On my blog, in my diaries and journals, on social media; just everywhere.

Make more memories
When I get to the end of a year, I love looking back at the things I’ve done. These are the things I remember, rather than the things I’ve bought. So I’m aiming to make more memories this year.

What to do in 2015

Happy New Year! I hope your festive season was a good one, and that you are excited about the year ahead. I’m not really a fan of New Year’s Eve, but I love the fresh feeling of the new year, the idea that the whole year is ahead of us and the hope of achieving lots. As you may know, if you have read this blog for a while, I don’t make resolutions, but I do have a list of regular goals that I hope to achieve each year, as well as some extras that change year-on-year. I know that not everyone agrees with the idea of making resolutions or setting goals, but for me it’s another excuse to make a list (I do love a list), and they are things that are genuinely ongoing throughout the year.

So without further ado, and with a brief roundup as to how I did with last year’s goals, here is my list.

Go to a music concert/gig: I love seeing and hearing live music, so this is on the list to make sure that I do it at least once. In 2014, I was lucky enough to see a lot of live music, for me at least! I went to the Classical Spectacular at the Royal Albert Hall with my dad, I saw The Shires twice, the second time they were co-touring with Ward Thomas, who I had also seen at Radio 2 in Hyde Park! I also went to The Big Gig, a Guiding event, where I saw lots of people, but most excitingly, Little Mix. And I saw The Gaslight Anthem in November at Alexandra Palace. I don’t know if 2015 will be quite so full, but I’m definitely hoping to see Ward Thomas again, at the very least!

Go to the theatre: When I made my list last year, I knew that I was going to see Derren Brown, and I said that as it was taking place in the theatre, I was going to count it. I am counting it as crossed off, but I know really that it’s a bit of a cheat, because although obviously I loved it, when I wrote ‘Go to the theatre’, I meant to see a play or a musical. I would love to cross it off properly next year, because I do so love the theatre. I have a £35 Ticketmaster voucher that I’ve never used, so maybe I’ll just go ahead and book something!

Go to a comedy gig: This has been on my lists for years, and I’ve never actually done it! It shouldn’t be that hard, and maybe I’ll use the aforementioned voucher for this one instead!

Go to a theme park: I think I had been to a theme park every year for about five, right up until I started making these new year’s lists, and since then, I haven’t been to one! I am definitely going to try and do this one next year. All I have to do is get Anna on board, and that’s easy.

Go to a stately home:  Still one that I haven’t managed since I started making the lists. I already know where I want to go (Audley End, which is local, and Chatsworth, which is not), but I won’t be surprised if I don’t end up doing it.

Read 75 books: I haven’t had a chance to round up the results of my 2014 books, but I’m really pleased that I managed it, just! I finished my 75th book on 30th December, so look out for the round up in the next couple of days. I’m sticking with 75 again this year, because I know that I can do it, and I know that I shouldn’t make it such a chore by leaving it until the end of the year to read a fifth of the books!

Watch 52 films: When I first starting setting myself a film goal, I chose 52 because I thought it was easily achievable – one a week. As it turns out, now, it’s a goal that I surpass every year, and in 2014 I went way over, watching 73. The temptation is obviously to up the total, and aim for 75, or 100, but I’m reluctant to do that, because I don’t want to fail. So I’ll stick to 52, and see what happens this year, and then I’ll reassess next year! My 2014 film round up will be coming soon.

So there you have my main seven goals for 2015; these are the goals that stick around every year, because they are the things that I always want to have as part of my year. But every year there are a few that I like to throw in as extras. Last year, I wanted to take more photographs, blog more, spread the blog love, declutter, and keep a diary. I didn’t keep a diary (I never do), I didn’t declutter (but that goal has made it onto my 33 Before 33 list), and I didn’t spread the blog love as much as I could have. I think I probably did blog more, I feel at least that my blogging was more organised and had a better structure to it. I did take more photographs as well, as I completed a Project 365 for the first time ever! (Of course, I’ll be doing a post to round up all my photos from the year, too.)

For 2015, there are just a few more things to add to my list.

  • Have a meat-free day a week: I work with a lot of vegetarians and vegans, and while I am under no pressure to change my diet, I thought I would give it a go. I don’t want to be a vegetarian, but I do like the idea of experimenting with my meals, and changing up what I eat. It can only be healthier too, because I’m much more likely to cook something yummy than shove something in the oven. We’ll see how it goes!
  • Keep a diary/journal: I know what I said up there, it never happens. But I do so love the idea of diaries, and I love reading back on ones that I have managed to write in the past, so I’m going to give it another go. I’m also planning on resurrecting my journal, which is where I keep photos, articles, tickets and the suchlike. I love reading back on old journals too, so it’s definitely worth my while doing it.
  • Organise my photographs: This extends to sorting out (and backing up) digital files, and getting some photos printed and into albums. I know it’s a cliché to say it, but I do hate that there is a dearth of printed photographs from recent years in my family collection, especially when there are so, so many from years gone by.
  • Explore Essex: I know that if you aren’t from Essex, you might be scoffing right now, thinking that there’s no more to this county than Brentwood high street and the Sugar Hut, but that’s just not true. There’s some beautiful villages in Essex, and I’d love to see more of them. I’m going to spend some time looking around and taking some photographs of them.

In lieu of resolutions, these are the things I want to do throughout the year, things that bring me joy and fun and just make my life a little more fun! Do you make resolutions?

Top Ten Tuesday ~ Top Ten Bookish Things

Last week I discovered a new favourite blog, Broke and Bookish. I’ve spent a long time over the last few days reading through the archive, and I’m hooked. So today, I thought I’d join in with their weekly feature, Top Ten Tuesday, in which they post a Top Ten list, and encourage everyone to join in with it. Today’s topic is Top Ten Bookish Things: Bookish things you’d like to own. I had a lot of fun finding things to include in my list!

1. Casino Royale poster ~ Spineless Classics ~ £39.99

 

Spineless-Final

I love Spineless Classics products – posters with an entire book printed on them, and usually designed in a theme to fit the book. This Casino Royale poster is so, so cool.

2. Game of Thrones Brooch Set ~ Kate Rowland Illustration ~ £12

I’m a fan of A Song of Ice and Fire first and foremost; whilst I love A Game of Thrones, it’s secondary to my love of the books. I’m still waiting patiently for the The Winds of Winter. These brooches are super cute, and I want them!

3. The Wonderful Wizard of Oz tee ~ Out of Print ~ $28

4. Literary Quote Bookmark ~ Lovely Cuppa ~ £1

This is one of my favourite quotes; I spotted it on a bag at the British Library last year and loved it, so when I saw this bookmark I knew I had to add it to this list! And now, I have to buy it.

5. Library Ticket Wedding Stationery ~ E.Y.I.LOVE ~ £3.65

I’m not getting married any time soon, but if I did, I’d love to use these invitations. I’m old enough to remember when library tickets looked like this, and while I am sure it’s more efficient the way they do it nowadays, there’s a certain charm about the old way!

6. Lord of the RIngs Rohan Retro Travel Print ~ Teacup Piranha ~ From £5

Despite having no penchant for horses, I always think that I’d live in Rohan if I was a Middle Earth resident. I don’t know what it is about the place, but I love it. So this print would look pretty awesome on my wall.

7. Falling Bookend ~ Artori Design ~ $22.90

There’s not really anywhere in my house where bookends would be appropriate. But in my dream house that exists in my mind, there’s plenty of room, and I love these ones.

8. Library Books Bookplates ~ Mac and Ninny Paper Company ~ £4.95

I’ve never actually used bookplates, though I like the idea of them. I give a lot of my books to charity shops, so I like the idea of someone getting my book and seeing that it used to belong to me!

9. Bloody Love Books Tote Bag ~ Kelly Connor Designs ~ £13.75

I do bloody love books, and I always use a tote bag when I go to the library to pick up 10 books at a time, so this would be perfect!

10. Harry Potter Tattoo

Does this count as a ‘thing’? It’s not exactly the design I would have if I got a Harry Potter tattoo; I think I’d go for either the Hallows symbol or ‘All was well’, but it’s symbolic of the fact that I want one.

What to do in 2014

Happy New Year

~ image from WeHeartIt ~

For the last week or so, I’ve been reading the blogs and tweets and Facebook statuses of people talking about New Year’s resolutions. For every one person that is making them, there seem to be five who are berating them for it and saying that they are a waste of time.

Each to their own, of course, but I like my list of things I want to do in the New Year. I don’t really look on them as New Year’s resolutions, as such, but I guess they are. They are things I resolve to do as the year progresses, so I think it’s probably inaccurate to say I don’t make New Year’s resolutions!

If you’re a relatively new reader of Is That You Darling, you may wonder why I choose to make a yearly list of things to achieve from November to November (my 32 Before 32 list), and a list of things to achieve from January to December (this list). It’s mostly because I’m a compulsive list-maker, but also because I like to keep the two things separate. I don’t want to pack my birthday list with these things, as they are mostly things that I try to do every year. So without further ado, here they are (again):

  • Go to a music concert/gig: Last year I went to see two big live gigs (Status Quo and Bon Jovi), as well as some live music at my local pub, so I ticked this one off for the second year in a row. I’m pretty confident it’ll be crossed off again in 2014
  • Go to the theatre: No theatre for me last year, sadly. In 2014 I am going to see Derren Brown, and it’s in a theatre, so it’s totally going to count.
  • Go to a comedy gig: No comedy for me last year either. I keep it on the list every year, but I don’t have much confidence that it will actually happen!
  • Go to a theme park: I didn’t get to a theme park in 2013, mainly due to lack of funds. I would like to say that this will hopefully change in 2014, but we’ll see
  • Go to a stately home: This is one that I am determined to achieve this year. I am going to wait for one of those National Trust weekends, and hopefully go somewhere for free!
  • Read 75 Books: I recently posted about the 75 books I read in 2013 (you can read the post here), and I confirmed that my target will remain at 75 for 2014. It’s totally doable, as long as I don’t go for long periods where I dip into five or six different books without actually finishing any of them. I just got a Kindle Fire too, so I’m looking forward to loading it up with some books!
  • See 52 New Films: A film a week is easily done, especially as I have my 32 Before 32 challenge of watching twelve comedies running alongside it.

These are my seven main goals that remain the same year-on-year. They make up the things that I want to try and make sure I do each and every year, because they are all things that I love. But there are a few additional things that I want to add to my list this year, in the hope that I will be spurred on to achieve them.

  • Take more photographs: This is an on-going life goal, and one I make in lieu of pressurising myself with a photo-a-day project. I would love to take a photo a day, but if I set out with that in mind, I’ll fail! This year I’m going to try and do as many of Fat Mum Slim’s photo challenges as I can; she launches a new list of prompts each month, and I join in sporadically on Instagram. I’m taking it one month at a time, but I’m hopeful!
  • Blog more: I already blog a lot, but I definitely want to get more organised in terms of when I blog. I need to schedule more posts, and I want to go back to having specific days for certain posts. I have a few irons in the fire in terms of new series, and I’m excited to get writing!
  • Spread the blog love: I am starting the year with the best of intentions; to comment on as many blog posts as I can. It’s not always the easiest thing in the world to do, as I read most blog posts on my phone, and I can’t always comment. But when I can’t comment, I’m going to try and tweet the blogger with my thoughts.
  • Declutter: I need to have a massive sort out of all my belongings. I own too much stuff, and most of it is unnecessary.
  • Keep a diary: This is another on-going life goal; I have so many diaries that I have written in throughout the years and I never keep up with them. I’ll be trying again in 2014.

So there you have it, my goals for 2014. I’m so pleased it is 2014, fourteen is a much nicer number than thirteen.

What To Do in 2014

Progress Report ~ November

Watch 52 New Films

As you can see, the majority of the films I watched in November were Hitchcock films, as I was rushing to get my 31 Before 31 goal completed. I really enjoyed all four of them, but my favourite of them was probably Vertigo. It definitely deserves its place on all those best films lists! I also watched Apollo 13, which was on the television one night. It’s not a film that I thought I would enjoy, because I have issues with space, but it was very, very good, and I loved it. A ‘My Thoughts On…’ post is coming soon! These five films take my total up to 49, meaning I have three more to watch to complete my goal before the end of the year.

Read 75 books

Nov Books 1

Nov Books 2

At the beginning of the month I had almost resigned myself to the fact that I probably wouldn’t reach my goal of 75 books in 2013. But then I had a bit of a spurt, and ending up finishing eight books in November, four of them over the course of three days! My favourite book this month was definitely My Life by David Jason; such a good read for anyone who is a fan. I also really enjoyed The Forgotten Seamstress. The rest of the books were perfectly fine, but not all of them were to my taste. These eight books took my total to 65, and then I finished another today, so I have just nine more to read before the end of the month.

32 Before 32

November saw the end of 31 Before 31 (the results can be found here), and the start of 32 Before 32. I have already made a start on some of the items that are on-going things.

Ham and Rye by Charles Bukowski became my first book for number one on my list – Read ten books from 1982. I’ll be sharing my thoughts on it later in the week.

As I mentioned above, I read My Life by David Jason, and as it’s a non-fiction book, it became my first book for number two – Read ten non-fiction books. I wrote about it here.

I have already posted my first outfit post, meaning it’s one down and nine to go on number seven – do ten outfit posts.

I feel as though it might take a while to actually cross anything off of this year’s list, there seem to be a lot of cumulative goals that will take a long time to complete!

 

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